Free 30-minute Masterclass for Christian Women

3 Steps to a Healthy Relationships and Ending Unwanted Cycles

Escape messy relationship cycles and feeling defeated  

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Get These Questions Answered

  • Why your relationships haven't felt deep or fulfilling
  • ​How to heal the inner critic that keeps you isolated and feeling lonely
  • How to answer the question for good: "Am I loveable or worthy?"
  • ​How your childhood trained you to view yourself and God and how to heal it
This Training is for you if:
  • You feel guilty for not taking care of the emotions of people around you; and often abandon yourself to do so

  • ​Performance continues to drive your self-worth and worthiness of love from God and others

  • ​Dating feels "High Stakes" or you feel massive apathy about dating
  • ​You relate to God as controlling and displeased with you at times
  • ​You cannot connect with your emotions in vulnerability to God or others or you always need to be the leader in relationships
  • ​You have a consistent fear of being misunderstood in conflict

Real Stories from Real Women that Went Through this Process

"Eternally grateful for all you have allowed Him to do through eases my heart to be aware that you know i am a true advocate of the ups and downs you and Spencer have chosen to ride for the sake of us who needed you to be here now....before all the kinks were worked out. I believe you helped to save my life. My husband and family are ever grateful."

“I used to shame myself constantly for not being good enough...I figured out how to have a relationship, fell in love with an old college acquaintance, and got MARRIED at age 36!”

Beth went from single to dating to married using this same process- Spencer even officiated their wedding!
“People not knowing me is completely connected to me not knowing me. Sammi has exemplified what I wanted to become. My life has changed dramatically. I’m walking in an aspect of abundant life I never thought I’d be able to taste.”

Jessie went from single to married to becoming a mama!
"...the goal of joining this program wasn’t to get married as an end result but to be free, to end cycles I found myself in & God did SO much in my heart. Freed me from fear, healed past pain and allowed me to be fully satisfied in Papas love and my own love for myself. In His sovereignty He brought Ryan to me!"

"My main motivation for joining Alive & Free was I desperately wanted to get married...I was so scared of myself...scared of my mess...but in relationships and especially in marriage, pain happens all the time.  If I hadn't joined, I don't think I would be married right now, I wouldn't have the connection with God I have now, and I wouldn't feel as comfortable in my own skin as I am"

About Your Hosts

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Spencer and Sammi Robbins are Christian Life Coaches that, by the grace of God, have worked with more than 4000 clients over their careers.  They have felt that working through their past pain, shame, and unhealthy cycles has equipped them far greater than their education over the last decade.  They believe that far too many divorces, walking away from God, and habits of sin and destructive coping have been a result of not knowing how to work through pain.  Also, that our internal pain and view of God drastically affects the way we show up in the relationships closest to us.

Spencer and Sammi have invested thousands of hours and dollars into individual counseling, coaching, marriage therapy, books for more than a decade but have learned powerful tools and wisdom in emotional health from Holy Spirit to experience radical transformations from self-hatred, self-judgment, and shame. They love Jesus with everything in them and desire to see christians in whole, connected, emotionally healthy relationships.

Sammi began her consulting business as a result of seeing close friends experience breakthrough in their lives after implementing what she learned.  Alive & Free has a team of 40 caring professionals now.

This Free Training cuts right to the heart of what is necessary to see and experience immediate change in your connection to God, Yourself, and Men.

Biblical References

  • Psalm 77:6- I call to remembrance my song in the night: I commune with mine own heart: and my spirit made diligent search.
  • ​Psalm 4:4- Stand in awe, and sin not: commune with your own heart upon your bed, and be still.
  • ​Proverbs 4:23- Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
  • Ecclesiastes 1:16- I communed with my heart...
  • ​Proverbs 13:12- Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life.
  • ​James 4-  What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? 2 You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. 3 When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.
  • 1 John 4:19- We love because He first loved us.
  • ​John 8:3-5, 10-11- Then the scribes and Pharisees brought to Him a woman caught in adultery. And when they had set her in the midst, they said to Him, "Teacher, this woman was caught in adultery, in the very act. Now Moses, in the law, commanded us that such should be stoned. But what do You say?" 10 When Jesus had raised Himself up and saw no one but the woman, He said to her, "Woman, where are those accusers of yours? Has no one condemned you?" She said, "No one, Lord." And Jesus said to her, "Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more."
  • John 8:32- You will KNOW the Truth and the truth will make you free (Emphasis Added)
  • Psalm 37:4- Delight in the Lord and He will give you the Desires of your heart.
  • Proverbs 27:19- As water reflects the face, so one's life reflects the heart.

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